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How To Forgive Yourself

How To Forgive Yourself

Forgiveness is not for the person who offended you but it is for you. Often, in our anger toward another, we come to realize that the person we most need to forgive is ourselves. It is much harder mentally forgiving yourself than on anyone else. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you have to deny what happened. You certainly don’t have to condone or forget the wrong. Rather, forgiveness is choosing to stop your vengeance from diminishing you by continuing to drag you…

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What Are You Contributing To Life

What Are You Contributing To Life

Everyday, in so many ways, we can see people getting irritated, angry or sulking over small little things in life that upsets them be it in family, workplace or simply while hanging out among friends. This is often more true when one is rushing for something and suddenly something goes wrong, specially in at workplace. I often wonder why it is so easy for people to react in anger easily compared to reacting with love and patience. Habit? Perhaps it…

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How To Build Self Confidence Easily

How To Build Self Confidence Easily

Do you believe you are not a very self confident person? Personally I think we all possess some kind of self confidence to a certain level. Have you ever done certain thing with absolute certainty as if you are very sure about it? That’s self confidence. We might have self confident in one thing but may not be self confident in another thing. For example, you may be confident in doing your work but may not be very confident when…

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Staying Motivated In Life

Staying Motivated In Life

It is hard to keep yourself motivated if you don’t know the ways. You will probably be motivated for awhile and when something goes wrong, you get discouraged and you give up. How do we stay motivated no matter what happens? There are few things you can do, for example, you can try to remember your original purpose. Perhaps when you remember your goals you will be motivated again. If that doesn’t work, look for the things that can inspire…

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How To Have Self-Discipline

How To Have Self-Discipline

Almost everyone is struggling with self-discipline in this life. We find it in everything we do, in our jobs, in our homes or in our schools. It means can I do this thing on time? For example, you might want to write an article for your blog by 6:00pm, can you do it by then? If you look closely, all these little things in life exist for that very reason, to teach us self-discipline. There is really a special power…

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Control Your Desires

Control Your Desires

Some people say, “desire is the root cause of all evil”. Well, that statement is not quite true. It should be “uncontrolled desire is the root cause of all evil”. If you reflect long and deep enough on this statement, you will realize that most of our problems in life are caused by our uncontrolled desires. More aptly, you can say “lust”. What does it mean to desire? It means to want something. There is nothing wrong to have desire…

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Life Advice: Things I Have Learned In Life

Life Advice: Things I Have Learned In Life

When I look back at all the life experiences I went through, it feels like as if it all has happened Just not too long ago. Just like that, the time has passed by me. Maybe you have looked back at your own life and have wondered too

Doing The Right Thing In Life

Doing The Right Thing In Life

Sometimes we all come to hear things we don’t like to hear. Maybe they are right and maybe they are wrong or do you feel you are right? Are you absolutely sure you are right? There is no one perfectly right of course. What’s right for us may not be right for others and vice versa. It all depends to our point of views. There are certainly many ways to look at a same thing. What’s your angle?

Dealing With Loneliness

Dealing With Loneliness

I have been alone for the most part of my life. I still can remember those pangs of loneliness I went through. I still can remember those days of weeping tears of sorrow. I can say I have experienced loneliness to its extreme. There have been days that I have even wished that I am not alive. Life persisted though and I have learned that in reality, none of us are ever alone. We are living with something dynamic of…

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How To Change Your Life

How To Change Your Life

It’s an ordinary life to wake up in the morning, spend about eight hours on the average going to work, after work, we are just too tired to do what we love to do and we just go back home. When we reach home, we on the TV spend another few hours watching useless news or shows trying to relax, and then there are our children making noise. We sigh! We shake our head and we wonder if this is…

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A Good Advice For Life

A Good Advice For Life

Anyone who have had enough of sufferings in life and have learned valuable lessons from these experiences can often give very good advice for life. It doesn’t really matter what’s stage in life they are, whether they are married, not married, young or old. What’s more important are the lessons they have learned. In fact, it is not hard to find these people who have been exposed to sharp angularities of life. If you will just look around, you can…

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Making Life Easier For Others

Making Life Easier For Others

Sometime back, I decided to go out and observe people and see what I can learn from them. I wanted to prove to myself that if we observe people with the right frame of mind, we can learn a lot of things about life. I took a walk to a KFC (Kentucky Fried Chicken) not far from my house to start my experiment. Silly as it may sound, but if you are working as a researcher, you will do all…

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