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How To Forgive Yourself

How To Forgive Yourself

Forgiveness is not for the person who offended you but it is for you. Often, in our anger toward another, we come to realize that the person we most need to forgive is ourselves. It is much harder mentally forgiving yourself than on anyone else. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you have to deny what happened. You certainly don’t have to condone or forget the wrong. Rather, forgiveness is choosing to stop your vengeance from diminishing you by continuing to drag you…

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Being Clear About Our Goals In Life

Being Clear About Our Goals In Life

I often encourage people to have a clear goal in life. Just why is it so important to have a clear goal? There is an interesting inspirational story about a fox that failed to catch a rabbit which explains well why we need to know our goals clearly. In the story, the foxes had a meeting to nominate one among them to catch a rabbit for dinner. The nominated fox spotted a rabbit and commenced a chase. The rabbit was…

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What Are You Contributing To Life

What Are You Contributing To Life

Everyday, in so many ways, we can see people getting irritated, angry or sulking over small little things in life that upsets them be it in family, workplace or simply while hanging out among friends. This is often more true when one is rushing for something and suddenly something goes wrong, specially in at workplace. I often wonder why it is so easy for people to react in anger easily compared to reacting with love and patience. Habit? Perhaps it…

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Choosing A Worthy Goal In Life

Choosing A Worthy Goal In Life

We can choose any kind of goals in life but the kind of goals we choose in life depends to how much we understand what life is all about. If you have the belief that there is nothing much to life here except to survive, probably you will just have some goals which can enhance your survival here until the day comes for you to leave. Perhaps one of those goals is to be rich. On the other hand perhaps…

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How To Build Self Confidence Easily

How To Build Self Confidence Easily

Do you believe you are not a very self confident person? Personally I think we all possess some kind of self confidence to a certain level. Have you ever done certain thing with absolute certainty as if you are very sure about it? That’s self confidence. We might have self confident in one thing but may not be self confident in another thing. For example, you may be confident in doing your work but may not be very confident when…

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Staying Motivated In Life

Staying Motivated In Life

It is hard to keep yourself motivated if you don’t know the ways. You will probably be motivated for awhile and when something goes wrong, you get discouraged and you give up. How do we stay motivated no matter what happens? There are few things you can do, for example, you can try to remember your original purpose. Perhaps when you remember your goals you will be motivated again. If that doesn’t work, look for the things that can inspire…

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How To Have Self-Discipline

How To Have Self-Discipline

Almost everyone is struggling with self-discipline in this life. We find it in everything we do, in our jobs, in our homes or in our schools. It means can I do this thing on time? For example, you might want to write an article for your blog by 6:00pm, can you do it by then? If you look closely, all these little things in life exist for that very reason, to teach us self-discipline. There is really a special power…

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The Easy Way To Achieve Your Goals

The Easy Way To Achieve Your Goals

Every now and then I come across people who complain that they are unable to achieve their goals. I will just tell them to use the KISS formula. Have you heard about the KISS formula? It is the acronym for Keep It Simple and Sweet. It’s really that simple. We don’t really have to crack our self to think how we are going to achieve our goals. The problem with people is they have too many goals to achieve within…

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Life Is Full Of Uncertainties

Life Is Full Of Uncertainties

There will come a time in our life, after so many painful experiences, we realize that we need to change. We will realize that the way we have been living our life has not been right. We will realize that we have fallen a long way down instead of being where we are suppose to be both materially and spiritually. Yet, when the time comes, at the moment of such a realization, we will feel lost. We feel such because…

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How To Handle Stress

How To Handle Stress

Have you ever felt, that everything just seem to be going wrong with you, sometimes feeling severe headache that you just feel like walking away from your work place, you feel as if you can’t depend on anyone anymore and sometimes wondering what is your purpose in life, hoping that you are not just filling some kind of God’s quota? They are the result of repetitious living process and lack of creativity in life.

How To Achieve Your Goals Faster

How To Achieve Your Goals Faster

Do you know that the shortest distance between two points is a straight line? Let’s say you live in Singapore and you want to go to New York, USA. Which way will be the most direct and fastest way? Surely, you will say by taking the direct flight there from Singapore. Why not drive through Thailand, Myanmar all the way to Europe and take a ferry from there? Yes, though it will be adventurous because you can see a lot…

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Control Your Desires

Control Your Desires

Some people say, “desire is the root cause of all evil”. Well, that statement is not quite true. It should be “uncontrolled desire is the root cause of all evil”. If you reflect long and deep enough on this statement, you will realize that most of our problems in life are caused by our uncontrolled desires. More aptly, you can say “lust”. What does it mean to desire? It means to want something. There is nothing wrong to have desire…

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