Comments on: What To Do When Your Partner Is Cheating You

By: Kathiroly Raj

Kathiroly Raj — Fri, 06 Jul 2007 12:02:34 +0000

Thanks for sharing your thoughts Vivian. It looks like you are talking about the law of retribution or karma. Well, it is true, every action has a reaction. Good reaction or bad reaction, it depends to our own actions. So like you said, better we choose some good actions so we will get back good reactions. Like the dude from Scorpion’s sings, “what you give.. you get back”.

By: VIVIAN

VIVIAN — Fri, 06 Jul 2007 08:23:53 +0000

Sometimes I really cannot understand why some people treat love like it’s a game, how much hurt if cheating by someone we love. Yes, I agree everyone have the right to choose the kind of life experience they want but I just hope before want to love someone please think isn’t you use their true heart to love his or her… today you so easily to hurt someone one days maybe you also will be hurt by someone, that time you will know how much that pain but all is too late then.

By: Kathiroly Raj

Kathiroly Raj — Thu, 05 Jul 2007 13:13:38 +0000

I didn’t mean to be one sided in this article. I wrote it for both gender. There’s nothing to be ashamed of. What matters is our maturity and understanding of what is right and what is wrong and making wise decisions. While choosing a good decision can be hard, there’s a good rule of thumb we can always use. When you are about to make a decision to do something, always ask yourself, “What will true love do in this situation?” But before that, one need to really understand what love is all about. Use the search bar in this site and look for the word love, I have written some articles about it. Hope it can give some guideline. Thanks for taking your time and posting your comment here.

By: Thavanes

Thavanes — Thu, 05 Jul 2007 09:06:01 +0000

Hai,
Such a good advice. As a girl I really feel ashamed when think that nowadays girls are doing like this. Hmmmmmm… very hard to find pure sincere love nowadays. Thank you.

By: Kathiroly Raj

Kathiroly Raj — Mon, 02 Jul 2007 09:30:03 +0000

It is true cheating is wrong. It is very much a painful experience when we come to discover someone we trust so much cheated on us. Yet, I realize something. We can’t change what has happened. What’s important now is our decision. How are we going to negotiate this situation? This is where we have to weigh what’s really important to us. Although, it is important to make other’s happy, it is not right to do it in the expanse of our unhappiness. We have to care for our own feelings too. Thus, if a situation such as in heart break, is hurting, it is better for us to walk away. Of course, it will be a painful step, especially in letting go, but we need to do it for everyone’s sake.

By: Lays

Lays — Mon, 02 Jul 2007 09:03:54 +0000

It is alright to leave for another person, no doubt about it. But cheating behind someone’s back is a totally different issue. Feelings may have been gone, one has to be truthful to him or herself and to others that committed to him or her. But you are right about the forgiving part. Thanks for sharing.