Wise Life Advice

Do you know that the shortest distance between two points is a straight line? Let’s say you live in Malaysia and you want to go to New York, USA. Which way will be the most direct and fastest way?

Surely, you will say by taking the direct flight there from Malaysia.

Why not drive through Thailand, Myanmar all the way to Europe and take a ferry from there? Yes, though it will be adventurous because you can see a lot of things, but the time it takes is longer compared to the direct flight. Continue Reading »

When one gets angry it is common to lash out hot words. Sometimes these hot words can lead to violence resulting in murder.

Whatever the theorists says about anger, from my own reflection and understanding, anger is caused by one’s lack of understanding and love. If you have the capacity to understand others and love others, you won’t get angry.

Lack of understanding means inability to see other people’s point of view. If you can see why people behave or do things the way they do, you will be more tolerant and able to control your anger. Continue Reading »

Just what is this thing we call love? Is there such a thing as true love? Is there a true lover in this world? Usually we relate love as a feeling of deep affection or devotion that comes to us towards someone when we are attracted to them. Sometimes it is said to be a feeling or desire to give whatever we have to that person we love something that creates wonderful happiness and at the same time something that causes pain too and if we refer to the scriptures, it says love is God.

In my life experience, true love is not the feeling that we get when we are attracted to someone. Love is more than that. I found that it is very hard to explain love. That is why there are so many people saying so many things about love. Words can never fully expose the truth about love. Love should be experienced and realized. Only than we can know it. Another thing I learned is that, until we find true love, we can never be fully happy. Happiness will always elude us. Continue Reading »

Sometimes we all come to hear things we don’t like to hear. Maybe they are right and maybe they are wrong or do you feel you are right? Are you absolutely sure you are right?

There is no one perfectly right of course. What’s right for us may not be right for others and vice versa. It all depends to our point of views. There are certainly many ways to look at a same thing. What’s your angle? Continue Reading »

We all go through relationship problems every once in a while whether with our spouse, children, friends, colleagues or anyone for that matter. Whatever you believe the cause of the relationship problem, personally, do you believe having a relationship problem is bad? Some people will say, “Yeah it’s bad to have a relationship problem”.

I look at it differently. For me, I look at every problem in life as a teacher in disguise. If I am facing problem, it means it has come to teach me something. There is something that I don’t know and that is why the problem is there to teach me. Continue Reading »