Posted in Life Advice on Mar 1st, 2008
Happiness is a momentary balance. When everything in our life is going smoothly and is well balanced we have happiness. When we are faced with conflicts and challenges, we are unhappy. We cannot find permanent happiness in this world because of the dual nature of this world. Happiness and sadness must co-exist. Sometimes we are happy, sometimes we are not. Life is a cycle. It is an ongoing process. Continue Reading »
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Posted in Life Advice on Feb 27th, 2008
There are many definitions of happiness. Sometimes said to be the state of well-being characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. Whatever the definition is, we all want to be happy. It is one of the greatest thirst of human beings.
Usually, something is making us happy. When this something is taken away from us, we are unhappy or sad. Ask yourself, what makes you happy? What if that thing is suddenly taken away from you? How will you feel? Can you still be happy? Continue Reading »
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Posted in Success Advice on Feb 26th, 2008
There is no magic formula for instant success in anything. Asking for instant success formula is like asking a fruit to ripe instantly which can only be done through some type of divine intervention. Perhaps, when people are seeking to change their life immediately and live it the way they want, what they are really asking is for a divine intervention.
There is nothing wrong to seek help from the divine source, but the reality is, whatever you want to achieve in life, there is a process of actions which need to be taken that will give the exact outcome one desires; meaning, doing the correct actions resulting in correct reactions. This process is true even when we are asking for divine intervention in our life. Continue Reading »
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Posted in Life Advice on Feb 26th, 2008
So you have failed to achieve something you want to achieve. It’s alright. Try again. If not, be glad you have learned as much as you can and move on. Let go of the negative emotions that comes along with failure and try doing something else. Failure in something doesn’t mean your world has ended or it’s the end of the world.
In my personal life experience, I have learned that there will always be something to learn in a failure. That is why we fail in the first place. We fail to learn. In fact failure is a preparation for success that is coming. If you don’t learn this particular lesson, how are you going to be prepared to handle something that success may bring along? So reflect on the lessons you can learn from the failure and move on without regrets. Continue Reading »
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Posted in Health Advice on Feb 26th, 2008
There have been numerous scientific studies proving that worry is an unhealthy state of mind as it causes harm to our body and clouds our mind from clear thinking. When worrying about something is prolonged it causes stress which leads to depression. As a result we will live constantly in unhappiness.
Worry is the direct result of not knowing what to do about the things we are worrying about. If we know what to do and if we are sure what we do will result in the outcome we desire, we will not have worries. This means, worry is created by the uncertainties we face in life. The cure for worry, then, is finding certainties in whatever we set out to do. Continue Reading »
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