The first thing you need to do before transforming yourself and start living a happy and fulfilling life, you need to know what really matters in life for you or know what you want. So what really matters in life for you?
As for me, happiness and freedom matters. The preservation and continuation of my identity matters for me. This gives me the sense of direction in my life. I put all my work towards achieving this. What about you? What matters for you most in life?
What matters in our life may not be the same with what matters in other people’s life. Everyone have their own story. Everyone live their own life. What matters is, what matters for you. Yes, for you.
Know this and design a plan towards achieving this. That’s what will make you happy. If you are following a dream which is not yours, if you are following someone else’s dream, you will never be happy. Think about it.
Finding out what matters in our life is not difficult. You already know it. You probably just don’t have the tools or some form of opportunities available for you to achieve it. That’s alright. Do not worry so much about it. What matters is, you know what you want and you have taken steps towards achieving it.
I am pretty sure, you know that achieving something have never been done overnight. Success doesn’t come overnight. It takes persistent follow through until the dream is realized. The key is, patience and not giving up.
Take a break from this fast moving pace of life for awhile. Go somewhere quiet and think about it deeply what you want if you are unsure about it. Once you know it, the next step you should do is making conscious decision that, that’s what you want and you will do whatever it takes to achieve it.
You have to decide there and then, you are going to achieve it. Thereafter, there is no turning back from it. You will plan and design your life only towards achieving this goal. Decide now. Yes, from today you will work towards it. The next step in this process is knowing the way and how you are going to negotiate the rest of the way. In other word, how are you going to achieve it.
One thing you should know is, if there is a question, there bound to be an answer. If there is a problem, there bound to be a solution. This is a relative world. There are two side to everything in this world. The positive and negative.
We won’t delve in that topic in this article, it’s just to let you know that, there are ways for everything. It’s just that, at this given point of time in your life, you are not aware of the answer or solution. Keep looking. You will find it.
Life is a song – sing it. Life is a game – play it. Life is a challenge – meet it. Life is a dream – realize it. Life is a sacrifice – offer it. Life is love – enjoy it. – Sai Baba