Think about this: when you approach the sky, the sky is always at its own place. The sky never comes to you but it is you who are rising towards the sky, for example, if you take a plane flying towards the sky, you are getting yourself near to the sky but did the sky came to you? Nope. You went to the sky instead. You made the sky come to you by making yourself going there. Likewise, there are certain things in life we cannot have by merely wishing for it but have to make yourself do something to have it.

Yet, it also goes to what we want to have in life. People believe they can have everything they want in life. All the motivators or life coach will make you to believe this, but what they forget to tell you is that, even though the principle of achieving something by forcing can work, there are consequences or price which must be paid for. In life, nothing comes free. Everything must be earned. What price are you willing to pay for? Meaning, what sacrifice are you going to make to have what you want?

In the case of a relationship for example. Let’s say you like someone who doesn’t like you, since you believe you can have anything you want to achieve, will you force her? Alright, assuming you believe you can achieve having her in your life by forcing, will you be willing to pay the consequences that comes along with it? It’s so easy to say, “I will do anything to achieve my goals, I believe in myself,” etc, but when it comes to face the challenges of our action, how many people are willing to face the reality that if they face a problem in their life, it is caused by their own self. It is mostly because they pursue the wrong goals.

I am leading you to think that although we believe that we can achieve the impossible, we also must be prepared to pay the price. The price can be anything. Let’s go back to that example. Now assuming you force her and try your best to have her, what if the way she responds is hostile? Will you face it? What if it is going to affect your life for good? You see, what I am saying is simple, there is nothing wrong to have a good dream of achieving something, but is it going to be worthwhile? What good will it bring to yourself and others?

Making wise choice of goals is important. Otherwise, we will end up creating problem for our own self and hurt ourselves.

Thanks for dropping by. Very well said, “The best things about life are always about living it” and recognizing and learning the lessons that each life experience brings to us.

It doesn’t matter what your goals are, as long as you’re out there, you’re always getting into more than you bargained for.