It’s an ordinary life to wake up in the morning, spend about eight hours on the average going to work, after work, we are just too tired to do what we love to do and we just go back home. When we reach home, we on the TV spend another few hours watching useless news or shows trying to relax, and then there are our children making noise. We sigh!
We shake our head and we wonder if this is all there is to life. We think about what we are doing here in this world; about the true values in life. We wonder if we can ever change this life. Guess what? You are not alone. Literally millions of people are going through this type of lifestyle daily and many of them have thought about their purpose and wondered if they can change their life too at one time or another.
Deep down in the heart of all of these individuals there are hopes or wishes. They actually want to do a lot of things with their life. Some just wants a lifestyle with a little extra quality time for their family. Some wonders if they will ever be able to travel to those strange parts of the worlds and learn about life and culture there. Yes, we all dream we can just live a life traveling around the world.
If you are one of them, you are where you are because you have chosen to be there. Don’t ask why you have to be like this because you don’t have to be. You can always change the way you are living your life. If you cannot change your life it is because you are lacking information such as how you can change your life. Often it is the belief that we cannot be better than who we are now that is preventing us from changing and adopting the lifestyle we want. Change that belief and you can change your life.
Basically there are six steps that I know of which can help you to change yourself and adapt the life you want.
Step 1 to change your life – Determine what is really important to you and what you really want out of your life and decide what kind of lifestyle you want to live that can achieve all these things that matters for you.
Step 2 to change your life – Prepare yourself to change to the life you want. If you don’t know the process of changing towards the life you want, how are you going to change? Find out all the information available which can assist you to attain your dream life.
Step 3 to change your life – Once you know your goals take action and focus on achieving what you want. Focus but don’t neglect other areas of your life which requires your attention. In this way you will keep balance in your life while trying to achieve your change.
Step 4 to change your life – Always have a learning attitude. It means being open to everyone or anything. Listen and learn always and adopt new approach when your old methods are not working. Always look for what can help you to change. Weigh it and make a decision on how you can use the new information in the process of changing your life.
Step 5 to change your life – Don’t be shy to get help. There are things we can’t do alone. We are just human aren’t we? Ask for help wherever you need. Ask your friends, family members or even relatives but don’t force them. Let them help you in the way they can. When you do this, you are not only getting help but also you are letting others be themselves.
Step 6 to change your life – This one is the most important step in changing your life. Take self responsibility and be committed. You cannot change yourself or change your life unless you are willing. It means you have to be self disciplined enough to see that you actually do what is necessary to change your life.
I hope these steps can help you. Let me put it in a nutshell.
To change and modify your life to the way you want you need to first figure out what is it that you really want to achieve with your life and what kind of lifestyle you want to live. Once you know your directions you can now do research on how to attain that life. After that you need to take the actual actions to live that life.
If this information to change your life isn’t enough, there are literally thousands of books out there that teach on how to change your life or do lifestyle modification. You can always find one that suits your needs and read them and apply those advices given about lifestyle modification.
So what kind of life do you want, a rich lifestyle, a healthy lifestyle, a spiritual lifestyle? Whatever lifestyle you want, you can have it if you know the correct way to have it.
The key is finding out the process it will take to have such a life you want. Process means knowing the step by step things to do to attain such a life.