Getting Over A Break Up

Getting Over A Break Up

How can we treat or help someone who have had a breakup? It is not easy to give a breakup advice or relationship advice because we are dealing with the matters of heart.

If one is mature in the heart, than he or she will be able to come out of it easily but often the pain are just too strong to be ignored.

How do we treat a broken heart? Nothing accept healing it with love. Yes, only love and love alone can heal a wounded and broken heart.

If you are going through such a situation, try to find some love. Life taught me one lesson. If we ever want love, we should give it first and it begins with ourself.

We start of giving love to ourself first, and than we go out and share this love we have inside for others.

As we go on sharing our love to life, this life will reciprocate to us and will return the love. It is easy to speak of love but it isn’t easy to give it. We often talk about love, but seldom do we demonstrate it.

Demonstrating love means giving off ourself for the well being the life around us. It does not have to be monetary. It could simply be an act of kindness such as helping an elderly crossing the road.

I always say, love is giving. It also means giving the freedom to the one we love to choose and grow in their life the way they want to. That means letting go of them.

If your partner have left you, accept it with love knowing they are in the direction of their choice. Let them go knowing that you are loving them by giving and honoring their personal space.

It is truly a grace or blessing to have felt the love in our heart although it is no longer with us now. It means this very love has gone away to bring something better.

Yes, love has many faces. It comes in through someone for awhile and then leave only to bring back someone else and suddenly we see love in someone else’s eyes… the love we have been waiting.

The question always remains the same, what are we willing to give up for love? All of our beliefs and attitude, does it matter when it comes to love?

The heart alone matters and the heart which loves, will love, will just simply love without anger, without jealousy, without greed, without vanity and with total honor and respect for someone else’s right to choose.

Are you honoring your partners choice to experience life the way she or he wants? It may look wrong to your eyes, but what’s right for us may not be right for others. Thus, it is better to let others to learn and experience life in the only way they can.

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In my own relationships, I know that I should break up with someone who doesn’t encourage me to be strong and make my own choices and do what’s best in my life, so if you’re dating someone who doesn’t want you to be the best person you can be, you shouldn’t be dating them. – Veronica Roth

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