If you want to achieve something in life like other successful people but facing a challenge that seems impossible to overcome, just remember this: you are a soul, a creative spark of God. As soul you have all the qualities of God. That means you can solve any problems. Remember that always. It will give you the self confidence needed to go through the challenges you are facing.
On the other hand, to be like successful people or achieve what you want means you need to equip yourself with the knowledge of how to achieve what you want to achieve. It means learning all about achieving whatever you want to achieve.
What this means is that you need to find a system of approach that works to achieve each of the goals you want to achieve. So the first step should be ensuring that any system of approach you want to use to achieve your goals is something that will work. You must know for sure, it will work. Otherwise you will be wasting your time.
Of course you wouldnâ€™t know until you actually try it. If you do use trial and error method, you still can look at the bright side of things when something goes wrong, for each failure presents an opportunity to learn something. We learn from mistakes. However, we donâ€™t have to use the trial and error method to achieve our goals. We can always borrow an existing system used by successful people to help us achieve our goals.
Look at those people who have achieved similar goals that you want to achieve. What is it that they did, that made them successfully achieve the goals? Learn that, duplicate that system and apply it in your own life to achieve your goals. When you do this, you save a lot of time and move ahead faster. This way of achieving something gives us the possibility of achieving something within a certain time frame. Yes, you can determine when you will be successful.
All those successful people are visionaries. They have a clear purpose and vision of what they really want to achieve in their life. Are you clear about your direction in life? Is whatever you are doing consistent with this purpose and vision? Think about that for awhile. Sometimes we tend to believe on a goal which is something that we donâ€™t really want to achieve. Are you sure the goal is what you really want? If you are sure, you can have it. Go ahead, achieve it.
Successful people also are strong believers. They believe in themselves and also in God. They believe in someone or something so strongly that it creates an aura or an electro magnetic field so strong around them; it attracts all those things needed to achieve their goals. This is what positive thinking is all about â€“ creating the wavelength at which those needed to achieve your goals will travel to you.
Successful people are also very self responsible. They realize that they have a choice in life and that they are responsible for whatever outcome of their effort. They donâ€™t blame anyone or anything for their mistakes but make a positive choice to change their style of approach for better outcome in the future. Donâ€™t blame anyone for your failure. Just learn from it and move on. Usually this is how the successful people think.
Successful people also know the correct method of using affirmations. If you want to be millionaire, say â€œI am a millionaireâ€ instead of saying, â€œI will be a millionaireâ€. Say it in the present tense instead of future tense. Be whoever you want to be now instead of in the future. When you do this, you are actually rearranging your own magnetic field or aura to whatever you want to be now. Your magnetic force will attract whatever necessary for your success. Remember the famous saying, â€œI think therefore I amâ€ by Descartes? Whatever you affirm, you become it eventually.
Successful people are also very committed to their goals. They donâ€™t give up on their goals whenever things go wrong. They do whatever within their resources and turn the problem into opportunity leading to their success. Donâ€™t neglect your desire to achieve your goals when things go wrong, be strong and do something about it. What does that means? It means persistence. You need to have persistence to achieve something.
Well, so far, I have written out the common traits of successful people. Yet, my experience shows one thing. The secret of success in anything is through humility and love. If you have both these qualities, you will attract anything. Look, listen, learn and be grateful for whatever you already have now, for they are leading you to all your desired goals. Put these two traits in the forefront of your mind no matter what you do and see for yourself the miracle it brings.