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Please Yourself

Please Yourself

So many of us grow up with the statement of self sacrifice and putting others first, that we don’t know where to draw the line in our own lives. This may sound like heretical Me Generation propaganda, but it is true. Just because you help yourself doesn’t mean you forget everyone else – you just put yourself in the pictures, too. I believe ion helping others, but I also know there are times when trying to please others hurts you…

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Think Out Of The Box And Change Yourself Now

Think Out Of The Box And Change Yourself Now

Not so long ago I received a mail from a friend on thinking out of the box. Just, what is thinking out of the box and how it can help you in changing your life? If you don’t know what is thinking out of the box, in simple term, it means thinking differently. The following moral and ethical dilemma type of question ( the mail I received ) that was once actually used as part of a job application process…

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Understand Conflict And Handle It Better

Understand Conflict And Handle It Better

I live in an apartment. While going out for lunch this afternoon, I saw a couple arguing about something badly in the lift. Looked to me it was an argument about an unknown phone call the girl received. Don’t be surprised. I have seen couples arguing about even for a simpler issue than this like looking at a guy.

Don’t Worry If You Fix It

Don’t Worry If You Fix It

We waste too much time worrying about the things we can’t control. Does my boss like me? Will my company downsize and put me in the the streets? Are terrorists stealing nukes? Will the airplane crash? Are antibiotic resistant disease about to create the Mother of the Plagues? Will Aunt Lila like my gift? On and on it goes…..

How To Help Yourself Through Change

How To Help Yourself Through Change

What is change? It is transformation. Everything is transforming from something to another thing and it is an endless process. Even the stone or bricks in your apartment are slowly decaying. Just because something looks still and static, it does not mean it is not changing. Change is the natural law of this world and we

Your Fears Are Wrong

Your Fears Are Wrong

We all have fears. Some of these fears are real, but often, they are simply imagined fears that have no real basis. The problem is that often unreal fears stop us from doing the things we really want to do. Here an example. The average taxpayer is consumed with the fear of an audit. It’s a fear that rules much of our lives, especially around tax time. But do you know your real chance of being audited are only about…

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Overcoming Failure

Overcoming Failure

So you have failed to achieve something you want to achieve. It’s alright. Try again. If not, be glad you have learned as much as you can and move on. Let go of the negative emotions that comes along with failure and try doing something else. Failure in something doesn’t mean your world has ended or it’s the end of the world. In my personal life experience, I have learned that there will always be something to learn in a…

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Difficulties In Life

Difficulties In Life

Is there anything wrong with the way things are right now in your life? Let’s say you are having financial difficulties, perhaps you will feel that there is definitely a problem in your life because you are not in the situation you want to be. That perception will continue to exist as long as you see or perceive you condition to be wrong. Consider this. You woke up this morning and saw the sky was clear and you decided to…

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