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Taking Charge Of Your Life

Taking Charge Of Your Life

Have you ever asked yourself, what am I doing with my life, why am I not happy, why don’t I have contentment in anything, why is it everyday seems to be a boring day, am I doing the right thing in my life or am I short living my life? If you feel as if you are not living your life fully, constantly feeling unhappy, feeling lack of motivation, feeling uncertain about life, there are a ways to begin changing them to the way you want them to be.

Know that each one of us are creator of our own destiny. Meaning every life circumstances we experience comes to us through the daily decisions and actions we are making. Whether we will be a success or failure, happy or sad, it all depends to the decisions and actions we are continuously making. Thus, it is important for us to learn to manage ourself; the person who is the constant decision maker and action taker. Once you learn to manage your own self, you will be well on your way to achieve living a positive life: a life the way you want it.

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Daily Problems In Life

Daily Problems In Life

Down here in this physical universe, wherever we go or whatever we do, we are sure to find a wall somewhere, limiting us from doing what we want to do, but well, that’s how it in this world. Do you agree?

What are these walls and why do they exist? Let’s say we are doing something now, and everything is going smoothly and suddenly there is a problem blocking us from achieving the goal of what we were doing in life. This is the block or the wall. Sometime we create them by our own; sometimes they are created by others for us.

These blocks or problems can come in any form, sometimes in the form of problems at work, sometimes as problems in relationship or sometimes as health problems. If our perception about them is correct, we will realize they come to teach us something important and take us to the next level in our spiritual growth.

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Self Improvement Help

Self Improvement Help

This is the most important message you are ever going to hear in your life. You are not a weak person. Yes, you read that correctly. You don’t need self improvement but you need self recognition. You are a soul. You are a perfect creation of God. Being perfect being why do you need to improve yourself?

If you perceive yourself to be weak that is because you are not seeing yourself as soul. Imperfection exists only in the human state of consciousness not in the soul. Instead of putting your effort on improving your human weaknesses, why not put your attention on finding ways to fully function as a conscious soul?

Self improvement programs should be focused on educating individuals recognizing their divinity and showing them how to be conscious at soul level instead of the human level of consciousness. Sure, improving our physical, mental and emotional weakness does some good to us, but why waste time, why not go direct to the source of everything now?

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How To Build Self Esteem

How To Build Self Esteem

Behavioral scientists say you will never let yourself have more health, happiness, or success than you feel you deserve. Wow! This means that right this minute you are attracting what you feel worthy of having. Chew on that awhile! So the common denominator for getting all the good stuff in life – health, wealth, good relationships, and even longevity – is self-esteem.

Self-esteem fluctuates over time. You and I are constantly measuring ourselves against our past successes and achievements. If there is a discrepancy between what we’re already done and what we still want to do, or if we don’t continue to achieve our goals, then our self-esteem may falter. Happily, if we learn to talk lovingly to ourselves and surround ourselves with people who truly love and support us, their words and acts of encouragement eventually will sink into our brains and boost our self-esteem.

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How To Forgive Yourself

How To Forgive Yourself

Forgiveness is not for the person who offended you but it is for you. Often, in our anger toward another, we come to realize that the person we most need to forgive is ourselves. It is much harder mentally forgiving yourself than on anyone else.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean you have to deny what happened. You certainly don’t have to condone or forget the wrong. Rather, forgiveness is choosing to stop your vengeance from diminishing you by continuing to drag you down to someone else’s level.

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Please Yourself

Please Yourself

So many of us grow up with the statement of self sacrifice and putting others first, that we don’t know where to draw the line in our own lives. This may sound like heretical Me Generation propaganda, but it is true. Just because you help yourself doesn’t mean you forget everyone else – you just put yourself in the pictures, too.

I believe ion helping others, but I also know there are times when trying to please others hurts you and indirectly them, in the long run. It is like a boomerang. You have to throw it, it won’t throw itself. You have to be the nicest to yourself first in order to be nice to others. If I am not happy in what I am doing, I cannot be joyful and helpful to others around me.

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Think Out Of The Box And Change Yourself Now

Think Out Of The Box And Change Yourself Now

Not so long ago I received a mail from a friend on thinking out of the box. Just, what is thinking out of the box and how it can help you in changing your life? If you don’t know what is thinking out of the box, in simple term, it means thinking differently.

The following moral and ethical dilemma type of question ( the mail I received ) that was once actually used as part of a job application process illustrates the point clearly.

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Understand Conflict And Handle It Better

Understand Conflict And Handle It Better

I live in an apartment. While going out for lunch this afternoon, I saw a couple arguing about something badly in the lift. Looked to me it was an argument about an unknown phone call the girl received. Don’t be surprised. I have seen couples arguing about even for a simpler issue than this like looking at a guy.

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Don’t Worry If You Fix It

Don’t Worry If You Fix It

We waste too much time worrying about the things we can’t control. Does my boss like me? Will my company downsize and put me in the the streets? Are terrorists stealing nukes? Will the airplane crash? Are antibiotic resistant disease about to create the Mother of the Plagues? Will Aunt Lila like my gift? On and on it goes…..

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How To Help Yourself Through Change

How To Help Yourself Through Change

What is change? It is transformation. Everything is transforming from something to another thing and it is an endless process. Even the stone or bricks in your apartment are slowly decaying. Just because something looks still and static, it does not mean it is not changing. Change is the natural law of this world and we

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Your Fears Are Wrong

Your Fears Are Wrong

We all have fears. Some of these fears are real, but often, they are simply imagined fears that have no real basis. The problem is that often unreal fears stop us from doing the things we really want to do.

Here an example. The average taxpayer is consumed with the fear of an audit. It’s a fear that rules much of our lives, especially around tax time. But do you know your real chance of being audited are only about 9 out of 1000. So, why do we worry so about being audited? Probably because of an even bigger fear – the fear of being audited and the government finding out that we have somehow cheated and we’ll end up in jail. Well, the chances of that happening to you is about 1.6 out of 100,000.

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