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How To Have Self-Discipline

How To Have Self-Discipline

Almost everyone is struggling with self-discipline in this life. We find it in everything we do, in our jobs, in our homes or in our schools. It means can I do this thing on time? For example, you might want to write an article for your blog by 6:00pm, can you do it by then? If you look closely, all these little things in life exist for that very reason, to teach us self-discipline.

There is really a special power in self discipline because if we are self-disciplined we can almost achieve anything. How do we achieve this self-discipline? We can achieve self-discipline easily if we understand our purpose in life, clear about our goals, we are devoted and committed to achieve it through focused attention.

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Control Your Desires

Control Your Desires

Some people say, ‘desire is the root cause of all evil’. Well, that statement is not quite true. It should be ‘uncontrolled desire is the root cause of all evil’. If you reflect long and deep enough on this statement, you will realize that most of our problems in life are caused by our uncontrolled desires. More aptly, you can say ‘lust’.

What does it mean to desire? It means to want something. There is nothing wrong to have desire but make sure you have the right kind of desires and make sure your desires don’t cause you problems. In another word, make sure what you want is right. Let’s say for example, you are married but you are sexually not satisfied with your wife. Let’s just say you have a problem at home and you are not getting enough of sex.

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Doing The Right Thing In Life

Doing The Right Thing In Life

Sometimes we all come to hear things we don’t like to hear. Maybe they are right and maybe they are wrong or do you feel you are right? Are you absolutely sure you are right?

There is no one perfectly right of course. What’s right for us may not be right for others and vice versa. It all depends to our point of views. There are certainly many ways to look at a same thing. What’s your angle?

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Dealing With Loneliness

Dealing With Loneliness

I have been alone for the most part of my life. I still can remember those pangs of loneliness I went through. I still can remember those days of weeping tears of sorrow. I can say I have experienced loneliness to its extreme. There have been days that I have even wished that I am not alive.

Life persisted though and I have learned that in reality, none of us are ever alone. We are living with something dynamic of which its greatness cannot be phrased. I know from my experience of being lonely for almost 15 years before I recognize the truth that I am never alone, no words can ever liberate the lonely hearts.

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How To Change Your Life

How To Change Your Life

It’s an ordinary life to wake up in the morning, spend about eight hours on the average going to work, after work, we are just too tired to do what we love to do and we just go back home. When we reach home, we on the TV spend another few hours watching useless news or shows trying to relax, and then there are our children making noise. We sigh!

We shake our head and we wonder if this is all there is to life. We think about what we are doing here in this world; about the true values in life. We wonder if we can ever change this life. Guess what? You are not alone. Literally millions of people are going through this type of lifestyle daily and many of them have thought about their purpose and wondered if they can change their life too at one time or another.

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A Good Advice For Life

A Good Advice For Life

Anyone who have had enough of sufferings in life and have learned valuable lessons from these experiences can often give very good advice for life. It doesn’t really matter what’s stage in life they are, whether they are married, not married, young or old. What’s more important are the lessons they have learned.

In fact, it is not hard to find these people who have been exposed to sharp angularities of life. If you will just look around, you can find one or two of them just around the corner, but for the most part, they are often silent about many of their experiences. You can know them from the way they talk about their experiences. Often the experiences will be full of good advice for life that can elevate and inspire you.

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Making Life Easier For Others

Making Life Easier For Others

Sometime back, I decided to go out and observe people and see what I can learn from them. I wanted to prove to myself that if we observe people with the right frame of mind, we can learn a lot of things about life.

I took a walk to a KFC (Kentucky Fried Chicken) not far from my house to start my experiment. Silly as it may sound, but if you are working as a researcher, you will do all sort of funny things just to get true information out of people.

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Accept Your Mistakes And Change Yourself

Accept Your Mistakes And Change Yourself

It’s so easy to say that we have created all the difficulties in our life by our own choices, but that’s the truth, whatever we are experiencing in life, both the good and the bad, is the result of our past choices and decisions. For most, the realization that they are the cause of their own problems will not come until they hit bottom, until they have been hit so hard in life and they start to think, “Oh boy, I sure have taken some wrong choices… I am not going to do something wrong again”.

Is it possible to take your life, when you have got it all bent and out of shape and make it somewhat decent? How do you reverse some of the bad choices you’ve made in the past? How do you change the mistakes you have done in the past? My own experience says we can’t pretty much do anything about it except to accept the reality of the truth that we have made some mistakes and be willing to face the outcome or consequences of the mistakes at no cost and make sure we don’t make similar mistakes again.

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How To Build Self Confidence Easily

How To Build Self Confidence Easily

Do you believe you are not a very self confident person? Personally I think we all possess some kind of self confidence to a certain level. Have you ever done certain thing with absolute certainty as if you are very sure about it? That’s self confidence.

We might have self confident in one thing but may not be self confident in another thing. For example, you may be confident in doing your work but may not be very confident when talking to your boss. It means, we do have self confidence, but we only lack of it in some areas. So, don’t ever say you don’t have self confidence because that’s wrong.

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Staying Motivated In Life

Staying Motivated In Life

It is hard to keep yourself motivated if you don’t know the ways. You will probably be motivated for awhile and when something goes wrong, you get discouraged and you give up.

How do we stay motivated no matter what happens?

There are few things you can do, for example, you can try to remember your original purpose. Perhaps when you remember your goals you will be motivated again. If that doesn’t work, look for the things that can inspire you.

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The Power Of Creative Visualization

The Power Of Creative Visualization

f you learn to use creative visualization in your life, you can manifest wonderful things in your life. It is true creative visualization has great powers in it. There are literally thousands of people if not millions, from sales person to motivational trainers who will affirm to the power of creative visualization.

Creative visualization is about imagining what we want in life clearly in our mind and manifesting it in our life. If you are a non-believer and being, skeptical about the power of visualization, ask yourself, have you ever at one time or another in your life have said these statements, “I am unloved”, “I am always unlucky”, or “I’ll never have those things in life”, etc. ? That’s negative visualization.

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