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The Easy Way To Achieve Your Goals

The Easy Way To Achieve Your Goals

Every now and then I come across people who complain that they are unable to achieve their goals. I will just tell them to use the KISS formula. Have you heard about the KISS formula? It is the acronym for Keep It Simple and Sweet.

It’s really that simple. We don’t really have to crack ourself to think how we are going to achieve our goals. The problem with people is they have too many goals to achieve within a given time frame and to add to it, those goals are not what they really want to achieve anyway.

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Life Is Full Of Uncertainties

Life Is Full Of Uncertainties

There will come a time in our life, after so many painful experiences, we realize that we need to change. We will realize that the way we have been living our life has not been right. We will realize that we have fallen a long way down instead of being where we are suppose to be both materially and spiritually.

Yet, when the time comes, at the moment of such a realization, we will feel lost. We feel such because we have done too many wrong things that our life has become a complete mess and we do not know what to do. When we experience such a situation of feeling of lost, what do we do? My reflection and observation, shows one thing to be true.

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How To Have Self-Discipline

How To Have Self-Discipline

Almost everyone is struggling with self-discipline in this life. We find it in everything we do, in our jobs, in our homes or in our schools. It means can I do this thing on time? For example, you might want to write an article for your blog by 6:00pm, can you do it by then? If you look closely, all these little things in life exist for that very reason, to teach us self-discipline.

There is really a special power in self discipline because if we are self-disciplined we can almost achieve anything. How do we achieve this self-discipline? We can achieve self-discipline easily if we understand our purpose in life, clear about our goals, we are devoted and committed to achieve it through focused attention.

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How To Handle Stress

How To Handle Stress

Have you ever felt, that everything just seem to be going wrong with you, sometimes feeling severe headache that you just feel like walking away from your work place, you feel as if you can’t depend on anyone anymore and sometimes wondering what is your purpose in life, hoping that you are not just filling some kind of God’s quota? They are the result of repetitious living process and lack of creativity in life.

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How To Achieve Your Goals Faster

How To Achieve Your Goals Faster

Do you know that the shortest distance between two points is a straight line? Let’s say you live in Singapore and you want to go to New York, USA. Which way will be the most direct and fastest way?

Surely, you will say by taking the direct flight there from Singapore.

Why not drive through Thailand, Myanmar all the way to Europe and take a ferry from there? Yes, though it will be adventurous because you can see a lot of things, but the time it takes is longer compared to the direct flight.

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Control Your Desires

Control Your Desires

Some people say, ‘desire is the root cause of all evil’. Well, that statement is not quite true. It should be ‘uncontrolled desire is the root cause of all evil’. If you reflect long and deep enough on this statement, you will realize that most of our problems in life are caused by our uncontrolled desires. More aptly, you can say ‘lust’.

What does it mean to desire? It means to want something. There is nothing wrong to have desire but make sure you have the right kind of desires and make sure your desires don’t cause you problems. In another word, make sure what you want is right. Let’s say for example, you are married but you are sexually not satisfied with your wife. Let’s just say you have a problem at home and you are not getting enough of sex.

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How To Overcome Addiction?

How To Overcome Addiction?

Whatever you are addicted to do or take, usually you do it because of habit. For example, if you are addicted to smoking, it is because you are caught up with the habit of smoking. Get rid if the habit and you can get rid of smoking.

In order to get rid of the bad habit or addiction, you need to make a conscious choice to break it but sometimes, even after we consciously make decision to overcome addiction, we are unable to do it because of the strong craving or urge that comes along.

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Ten Things You Should Do To Achieve Your Success

Ten Things You Should Do To Achieve Your Success

Is there anything important you want to successfully achieve in your life? Of course we all do but do you know what it takes to be successful? If you don’t know yet, here are ten steps or pointers that can help you achieve your success.

First, if you want to be successful in anything at all, you need to be crystal clear about what you really want to successfully achieve. It means having a clear goal. A goal is a target you want to reach. So before jumping into doing anything else start asking yourself what you want to achieve and why you want to achieve. Are you sure you want to achieve it? If you’re sure, let’s go to the next step.

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Choosing A Worthy Goal In Life

Choosing A Worthy Goal In Life

We can choose any kind of goals in life but the kind of goals we choose in life depends to how much we understand what life is all about.

If you have the belief that there is nothing much to life here except to survive, probably you will just have some goals which can enhance your survival here until the day comes for you to leave. Perhaps one of those goals is to be rich.

On the other hand perhaps you are wondering if there is more to life and perhaps you have a goal to discover if there is life after death, and so you seek here and there to find a meaning to life.

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Why Do We Get Angry

Why Do We Get Angry

When one gets angry it is common to lash out hot words. Sometimes these hot words can lead to violence resulting in murder.

Whatever the theorists says about anger, from my own reflection and understanding, anger is caused by one’s lack of understanding and love. If you have the capacity to understand others and love others, you won’t get angry.

Lack of understanding means inability to see other people’s point of view. If you can see why people behave or do things the way they do, you will be more tolerant and able to control your anger.

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