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Why People Commit Adultery

Why People Commit Adultery

There are many reasons why people commit adultery. Whatever the reason given to commit adultery, people who commit adultery can be termed irresponsible or immature.

People who know how to differentiate between what is right and wrong and who is responsible, will not commit adultery.

Whether you are lonely at home because your spouse spends less time with you or you have communication problem with your spouse, these problems should not be an excuse for adultery.

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Control Your Desires

Control Your Desires

Some people say, ‘desire is the root cause of all evil’. Well, that statement is not quite true. It should be ‘uncontrolled desire is the root cause of all evil’. If you reflect long and deep enough on this statement, you will realize that most of our problems in life are caused by our uncontrolled desires. More aptly, you can say ‘lust’.

What does it mean to desire? It means to want something. There is nothing wrong to have desire but make sure you have the right kind of desires and make sure your desires don’t cause you problems. In another word, make sure what you want is right. Let’s say for example, you are married but you are sexually not satisfied with your wife. Let’s just say you have a problem at home and you are not getting enough of sex.

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Consider Adoption Instead Of Abortion

Consider Adoption Instead Of Abortion

If you are pregnant but considering for abortion, why not take the alternative route of giving your child for adoption after birth instead of abortion?

There can be many reasons as to why you want to abortion but giving your child for adoption have more positive implications compared to abortion. It is a positive alternative for abortion.

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How To Find True Love

How To Find True Love

Just what is this thing we call love? Is there such a thing as true love? Is there a true lover in this world? Usually we relate love as a feeling of deep affection or devotion that comes to us towards someone when we are attracted to them. Sometimes it is said to be a feeling or desire to give whatever we have to that person we love something that creates wonderful happiness and at the same time something that causes pain too and if we refer to the scriptures, it says love is God.

In my life experience, true love is not the feeling that we get when we are attracted to someone. Love is more than that. I found that it is very hard to explain love. That is why there are so many people saying so many things about love. Words can never fully expose the truth about love. Love should be experienced and realized. Only than we can know it. Another thing I learned is that, until we find true love, we can never be fully happy. Happiness will always elude us.

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Relationship Advice: Relationship Problems

Relationship Advice: Relationship Problems

We all go through relationship problems every once in a while whether with our spouse, children, friends, colleagues or anyone for that matter. Whatever you believe the cause of the relationship problem, personally, do you believe having a relationship problem is bad? Some people will say, “Yeah it’s bad to have a relationship problem”.

I look at it differently. For me, I look at every problem in life as a teacher in disguise. If I am facing problem, it means it has come to teach me something. There is something that I don’t know and that is why the problem is there to teach me.

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How To Understand Someone

How To Understand Someone

So you want to understand someone. If you want to understand someone, first you need to understand that we cannot completely understand someone as long as we are in human consciousness. If you insist to understand someone completely, you need to become them. This is only possible when you are functioning completely in the soul consciousness. You need to be a self realized soul.

When we talk about understanding someone, we are talking about understanding their innermost thinking. Only when we can truly understand the inner thinking of someone thoroughly will we be able to understand that individual completely. This is because it is the inner thinking that we carry within us that moves our being. The truth about the need to look into how someone thinks for us to understand someone, reveals itself in the word understand.

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Why You Should Not Take Revenge

Why You Should Not Take Revenge

When people take revenge it’s usually because they are angry and unhappy about how they were treated. I am generalizing here. There could be more reasons to it but I believe basically revenge is an act resulting out of anger.

If we think deep enough we will find that those who take revenge are trying to satisfy their own righteousness. It’s as if saying, “Oh alright. Since you did that to me, I am going to do this to you”. It’s always the case of an eye for an eye when it comes to revenge.

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Dealing With Breakups

Dealing With Breakups

Dealing with breakup is anything but easy. I know this for a fact from my own personal life experiences. Crying through sleepless nights experiencing intense loneliness, I know there are many who just wish they are not alive. Yes, breaking up can cause such a great emotional turmoil, especially if we are deeply attached with the one we love. Painful indeed, but is there any help? The answer is yes. How do we deal with breakups?

On the surface, dealing with breakup may look difficult but if we can learn the ways, we can manage and overcome breakups easily. We begin by accepting the number one most important fact of life and that is, there is always a solution for every human problem one can imagine. Just because we do not know the answer, it doesn’t mean the answer doesn’t exist. If we don’t know the answer, it only means we are not aware of it. So stop believing that you cannot solve your problems.

In order to deal with breakups wisely, it is important to identify the root cause of the breakups. It will help us to understand and deal with breakups in a more positive way. Why did your relationship ended? What or who caused it? Often, we tend to point our finger towards our partner. Yet, if we sit down for awhile and think about it, we will realize that all problems we face in life, including heartaches such as in breakups, are caused by us. I say this because; we attract our life circumstances through the choices and actions we take. Think for awhile what you did in the past that have caused you to breakup.

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Does It Matter If Someone Likes Us Or Not

Does It Matter If Someone Likes Us Or Not

Are you wondering if people like you or not? How do we determine if someone likes you or not? The easiest way is to ask them straightforward if they like you or not. Ask them to give an honest answer.

While there are many who are willing to tell you about how they feel, it also is true sometimes people don’t really give honest answers in order to not to hurt others. In this case how do we know if someone like us or not?

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How To Have A Happy Relationship

How To Have A Happy Relationship

Love relationship is a delicate thing indeed. It is like holding an egg. If you apply too much of pressure while holding the egg, it will break in your hand. If you hold it too lightly it may just fall down and break too but if it is rightly held, it can be in your hand as long as you want.

Thus, maintaining a happy and successful relationship depends to how we handle it and it starts with us clearly understanding the purpose of having the relationship in the first place.

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