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A Good Advice For Life

A Good Advice For Life

Anyone who have had enough of sufferings in life and have learned valuable lessons from these experiences can often give very good advice for life. It doesn’t really matter what’s stage in life they are, whether they are married, not married, young or old. What’s more important are the lessons they have learned.

In fact, it is not hard to find these people who have been exposed to sharp angularities of life. If you will just look around, you can find one or two of them just around the corner, but for the most part, they are often silent about many of their experiences. You can know them from the way they talk about their experiences. Often the experiences will be full of good advice for life that can elevate and inspire you.

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How To Write Quickly And Easily

How To Write Quickly And Easily

Do you feel or think you have a problem in writing articles or essays? While there are ways to write effective articles or essays, the easiest way to write any piece of writing works is to free write it. That’s how I write my blog posts.

I free write all my thoughts in a single sitting. Usually it takes me about 30 minutes. Like what I am doing now. I am free writing this article. The idea came while I was wondering if I am communicating effectively the message I am trying to convey on this blog.

That question on effective communication made me to think about effective writing because if I were to convey the message effectively I have to write effectively. My articles have to convey the message correctly – meaning the writings have to be good.

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Thoughts On Life

Thoughts On Life

I often wonder how many people in this world realize that being alive and to have a life is the greatest gift we can ever have in this world. This statement is true no matter what is your condition. Even if you are living as a wreck, a disabled or whatever worst human condition you can think about. The reality is there is no such thing as good condition or bad condition. All these so called conditions are only differentiation of life experiences.

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Making Life Easier For Others

Making Life Easier For Others

Sometime back, I decided to go out and observe people and see what I can learn from them. I wanted to prove to myself that if we observe people with the right frame of mind, we can learn a lot of things about life.

I took a walk to a KFC (Kentucky Fried Chicken) not far from my house to start my experiment. Silly as it may sound, but if you are working as a researcher, you will do all sort of funny things just to get true information out of people.

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Accept Your Mistakes And Change Yourself

Accept Your Mistakes And Change Yourself

It’s so easy to say that we have created all the difficulties in our life by our own choices, but that’s the truth, whatever we are experiencing in life, both the good and the bad, is the result of our past choices and decisions. For most, the realization that they are the cause of their own problems will not come until they hit bottom, until they have been hit so hard in life and they start to think, “Oh boy, I sure have taken some wrong choices… I am not going to do something wrong again”.

Is it possible to take your life, when you have got it all bent and out of shape and make it somewhat decent? How do you reverse some of the bad choices you’ve made in the past? How do you change the mistakes you have done in the past? My own experience says we can’t pretty much do anything about it except to accept the reality of the truth that we have made some mistakes and be willing to face the outcome or consequences of the mistakes at no cost and make sure we don’t make similar mistakes again.

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How To Build Self Confidence Easily

How To Build Self Confidence Easily

Do you believe you are not a very self confident person? Personally I think we all possess some kind of self confidence to a certain level. Have you ever done certain thing with absolute certainty as if you are very sure about it? That’s self confidence.

We might have self confident in one thing but may not be self confident in another thing. For example, you may be confident in doing your work but may not be very confident when talking to your boss. It means, we do have self confidence, but we only lack of it in some areas. So, don’t ever say you don’t have self confidence because that’s wrong.

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Do You Know Who You Are?

Do You Know Who You Are?

Everywhere I go, whether while shopping in the mall, in the restaurant while I am dining or when I am driving my car, I see people and I wonder about them. I wonder what is in their mind. I wonder about their innermost thinking.

Sometimes I see happy faces, sometimes I see sad faces, sometimes I see angry faces, sometimes I see faces I can’t describe their expression… yes, there are people who don’t have facial expressions… they exist as if they are numb to feelings… and when I see all these people caught up in time in their own world, I wonder.

I wonder if they know who they are. I wonder if they know that they are not what they believe they are. I wonder if they know they are not the body and the name given to them. I wonder if they and you know that all of us are souls. Do you know this?

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Soul Travel: The Ultimate Key To Freedom And Happiness

Soul Travel: The Ultimate Key To Freedom And Happiness

Whether by means of having a good relationship with someone, through some sort of material achievement, religious rituals or a spiritual path, everyone is seeking everlasting freedom and happiness one way or another. Some have the belief that everlasting freedom and happiness can only be achieved if one has great wealth and some others believes one can have it only if they renounce life and achieve some sort of enlightenment.

You too probably have wondered at one time or another if it is possible to have complete freedom and happiness while living in this world. Some will say it is impossible because of the nature of this world is such. This world is constantly changing. The question: how can you find something everlasting in a changing world? Is it even possible? Many people are ready to admit that anything is possible, but when a challenging questions like this is asked, they become numb with uncertainties.

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When No One Trust Our Truthfulness

When No One Trust Our Truthfulness

Have you ever experienced in your life where you are very truthful in everything you do and no matter what you do, those people whom you are truthful with just don’t trust you? I have. In fact, I have experienced such people many times.

Only they know why they don’t trust us but from my experience, I tend to think it’s either because they don’t trust themselves enough to trust us or they just don’t understand us. Maybe they don’t trust us or anyone easily because of a bad past experience in their life.

Life can be hard living with or among people who don’t trust us. This is even more true if the person who don’t trust us is the one we love dearly. It’s true but what can we do? We don’t blame anyone. We can’t force anyone to trust us. We just let them be.

Think of it this way… will you trust anyone easily? I am sure you wont. It takes time to build trust. Furthermore, the world around us is build up in such a way, we can no longer bring ourself to trust anyone. So it is true, we can’t really blame anyone.

Well, I am reminded of a saying from a great spiritual master now. I goes like this, “Trust no one but pretend that you trust them”. I think the master must have said this because people in this world are so full of themselves and we don’t know when they will turn their back on us.

Yet, there is one prevailing truth and that truth is, we know ourself better than others. As long as we are honest, we don’t have to prove anything to anyone. It’s really between us and God. God is our witness. We just carry on do our duties properly and leave the rest in God’s hand.

I believe, if as we continue to do our works and duties sincerely with love to everyone around us, including those who don’t trust us, eventually they will realize the truthfulness in us. It takes time, but I believe they will trust.

In fact, truth doesn’t need anyone to defend it. Truth has its own power. Truth can defend itself. Truth is God. If you have truthfulness in your heart, it means you have God in your heart. When you have God in your heart, do you need to prove anything to anyone or do you have to fear anyone? I don’t think so.

I have come to accept that it doesn’t matter what other people think of us. It is their right to have opinion as much as we have the right to have opinion about anyone or anything. What’s important is we don’t encroach into other people’s space and we don’t let others to encroach into our space.

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Finding Joy In Hard Times

Finding Joy In Hard Times

When we are asked about what we are trying to achieve, what do we answer most of the time? Most people I know will relate the answer to either a material goal like financial freedom or a spiritual goal like self realization.

However I want you to ask yourself, have you ever considered about having a life full of joy at all time no matter what happens as one of those goals you have in life?

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How To Dress For Success In Meetings

How To Dress For Success In Meetings

Whether you are an employee or a business owner, dressing for success is a beneficial way to bring positive outlook to any meeting and help you achieve your objectives. If you haven’t thought about your appearance or evaluated your wardrobe lately, you will see the importance of doing so at some point of your career.

As an employee, there will be times when you have to attend a business meeting especially when requesting a raise or promotion, and you want to make a good impression on your bosses. Your appearance can have a great effect on the outcome of the meeting. Dressing for success will also portray you as being a serious and responsible professional.

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Staying Motivated In Life

Staying Motivated In Life

It is hard to keep yourself motivated if you don’t know the ways. You will probably be motivated for awhile and when something goes wrong, you get discouraged and you give up.

How do we stay motivated no matter what happens?

There are few things you can do, for example, you can try to remember your original purpose. Perhaps when you remember your goals you will be motivated again. If that doesn’t work, look for the things that can inspire you.

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