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How To Look Younger And Healthier

How To Look Younger And Healthier

I think this is one of the hottest tips I am going to give anyone. How to look younger despite your age. I am 33, but when I ask someone to guess my age, they usually say, I am around twenty four or twenty five. That’s like seven years different compared to my actual age. Some of us do look young naturally but is there a way to maintain looking youthful?

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About Life: What Is Life (Part 2)

About Life: What Is Life (Part 2)

What is life anyway? Ask anyone and they will come up with all kind of definitions. In fact, if you do a quick search on Google about what is life, you can find a whole bunch of definitions for it. The question is, what is life for you? What does it means to you? Is the way you define life is true? How true is it? What makes it true?

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About Life: The First Thing You Need To Do (Part 1)

About Life: The First Thing You Need To Do (Part 1)

I know there are a lot of people who want to know what is life all about such as what is life, the meaning of life and the purpose of life. Quite frankly, there are just too many theories about life and meaning of life out there that people don’t know which to believe anymore. Yet, for those who are serious in discovering the truth about life, it can be done if

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Think Out Of The Box And Change Yourself Now

Think Out Of The Box And Change Yourself Now

Not so long ago I received a mail from a friend on thinking out of the box. Just, what is thinking out of the box and how it can help you in changing your life? If you don’t know what is thinking out of the box, in simple term, it means thinking differently.

The following moral and ethical dilemma type of question ( the mail I received ) that was once actually used as part of a job application process illustrates the point clearly.

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How To Overcome Depression

How To Overcome Depression

One of the common problem I often discover from some of those who confide to me is their unrealized suicidal wish. I can understand other people’s problem because most of the time I have experienced what they share with me. Suicidal thinking can be caused by many reasons. Experiences like breaking up in a relationship, the death of someone who is dearest to us, loosing jobs or even simply because of some problem at home can be the cause for it.

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Living A Highly Energized And Stress Free Life

Living A Highly Energized And Stress Free Life

I have been feeling really run down lately. Well, I do eat properly and sleep well and yet I feel tired and I have figured out exactly why I am tired. It is because I think a lot. Yes, I do. I am thinker. I love thinking. If you are thinking a lot too, don’t worry, it is something normal. It only means we are looking for some solutions. If someone calls you weird or nuts and try give you their version of good life advice on thinking too much, know that, it is actually they are being weird for not using their mind to the its fullest potential.

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What To Do When Your Partner Is Cheating You

What To Do When Your Partner Is Cheating You

When I first found out my girlfriend was going out with someone else behind my back, the anger and pain that came with it was too much to handle. I felt cheated and hurt. It took me few months to get over it and it has been almost three months now since we officially break up. Now, I am so much better with improved perspective on life and love. That’s what happens. When things go wrong, there is something for us to learn and when you have learned it, you will come out as someone better.

If you find your partner cheating on you, there is no reason for you to create an argument of fight. Like I said before, there is no such thing as righteous anger. True love doesn’t gets angry. Just let it go and let the other person be happy with her or his choice of life experience. Everyone have the right to choose the kind of life experience they want. We are not responsible for other people’s choices. As a friend or someone close, we can share our point of view on matters, yet, ultimately, every one of us have to make our own choices.

Sometimes we feel our friends or partner made the wrong choices and we want to help. There is nothing wrong with such thoughts. It only means that you care. Yet, what’s right for us may not be right for someone else? Why do others make different choices than ours? It is because they have different ways of looking at life as a whole. Each one of us carry our own viewpoints according to the way we have experienced life before. This perceptions will continue and change accordingly as we gain more and more experiences in life.

In my case, I did not blame her at all. I looked into myself and I knew, things are happening for a good reason. Yes, there is a good reason for everything that is happening around us. Often we go blaming others for the pain and unhappiness we are facing because we couldn’t see the reason. Whatever the reason, blaming one another cannot solve the problem. It will only be like adding fuel to the already raging fire. Instead, ask yourself, what’s there for you to learn through this experience. This question is important because every experience in life is meant to teach us something. If we are perfect, I don’t think we will be down here experiencing life in this way. We probably be in heaven.

Whatever problems or painful situation you are going through now, will not last forever. This is the natural law of this physical universe. Everything changes. Sometimes, we feel happy and sometimes we feel unhappy. Like there is always a night and day changing, life will continue to change constantly. What’s more important is, how do we handle our own state of consciousness within this constant change in life.

Remember, you have the free will to choose the kind of experience you want to experience, think about it awhile and make a positive choice now. Your life is in your hand, not someone else’s hand. You are responsible for your own self. I made the choice to break up with my ex, and I am happier now. You can too if you are in similar situation. All you need is courage. Don’t fear change, but adapt your self to the change knowing it is all part of being down here in this world. Know this, life will improve, it is an inevitable law of life itself.

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Men want to think women don’t cheat, and women want men to think they don’t cheat, and therefore the sexes have been playing a little psychological game with each other. – Helen Fisher

Understand Conflict And Handle It Better

Understand Conflict And Handle It Better

I live in an apartment. While going out for lunch this afternoon, I saw a couple arguing about something badly in the lift. Looked to me it was an argument about an unknown phone call the girl received. Don’t be surprised. I have seen couples arguing about even for a simpler issue than this like looking at a guy.

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