Are you dating a married man? Here is my relationship advice on dating a married man. First of all you need to find out the reason you want to go out with this man. Do you honestly believe dating a married man can give you the happiness you want out of a relationship? I don’t think so.
The truth is, there are a lot more men out there who can make you happier. Women naturally thinks experienced man or a married man knows how to handle her better. That’s the key problem and men who is aware of this tends to take advantage of it. Usually they will start of by saying they are not happy with their wife but happier with you and so on.
Here is a question, if that man knows how to handle his wife in the first place, why would he have a problem in his relationship with his wife? My advice on dating a married man is that it is no good. Not for you, not good for his wife, and certainly not good for his children. Unless of course he is divorced and willing to commit for a relationship seriously. Well, hopefully serious this time.
According to experts, there are more reasons not be dating a married man. In fact the reason I don’t encourage women to go on dating a married man is because I have personally seen how a young girl’s life got ruined because of her dating a married man.
Young girls who lacks maturity usually feels more secured with elder man who seems to show this maturity that they don’t have. Of course they will show you that. It is because they know exactly what you need and they steal your imagination by giving you the kind of things you want to hear. They trap your imagination and make you become the product to satisfy their lust.
The truth is, if the married man you are dating can lie to his wife and dating you, how long will it take for him to lie to you and go on a date with someone else? If you still want to argue you can be happy dating a married man. Here are more reasons why you shouldn’t. He will never be with you and even if betrays the wows of marriage and leaves his wife and children and go for you, think on how long will it take for him to do it again to you.
The feeling of guilt of ruining another women’s marriage life alone will torture you for the rest of your life. Willing to loose your personal space? Well, because you are younger and he is more experienced, you have to face the reality you will never have your personal freedom. He will set all the rules for you and if you are dating a married man now, I am sure you already going through this.
He is using you to fulfill his sexual needs and commit adultery and you are encouraging it by going out with this married man. What goes around comes around. It won’t leave you. As you sow, so shall you reap.
Think again on your decisions, and don’t waste your life. You can always find someone better and loving, if only you can give yourself a chance to wait. There is no rush in love. Everyone will find love and it doesn’t have to come from a married man who don’t respect his marriage in the first place.
This advice goes to the guys who are dating married women too. Men and women who goes out of their agreed relationship are simply asking for trouble. They don’t know what relationship is all about. If they know, why would they want commit adultery? Don’t confuse love with lust. Love is totally different than lust. Your affection towards someone could be just a result of lust not love.
Love doesn’t encourage dishonesty, especially while already in a relationship. That is a good pointer for you to think. You might feel hurt to hear this, but if you are dating a married man, I advice you to break it up now before its too late and hurt yourself. You definitely deserve someone better.
To be intimate with a married man, when my own father cheated on my mother, is not something I could forgive. I could not look at myself in the morning if I did that. I wouldn’t be attracted to a man who would cheat on his wife. – Angelina Jolie