The life we live will only be as good as what we make it. It means we have a choice. We can design the way we want our life to be.
Whatever happened has happened. Thinking and constantly worrying about it will never bring any good to us. We should move forward leaving the past behind.
Life isn’t forever down here in this world. It is only a temporary sojourn we have taken. While we are here, we might as well do the best we can do with our life and live it to the fullest.
When things go wrong, there is no one to be blamed including ourselves. What we need is the realization that the mistake was done because we lacked awareness at that point of time of what we should have really done.
What we should do is to learn from the mistakes and strive to not to repeat the mistake again. Until we learn to do this, we will continue to do mistakes again and again. The lesson in it is to stop making similar mistakes.
Treat life experiences as a great teacher and learn from it. Each experience is a step forward in life. There should be no regrets or guilt about it for these experiences came only to make you a better person.
Each of these experiences will eventually lead you to realize that one way or another, you are accountable for both your actions and non actions that this world operates with the law of give and take.
What you give is what you get. As you sow so shall you reap – cause and effects of our actions. We will learn that, in order to have whatever we want in life, we have to first give it for how can you ask for something to be returned if you have not given it in the first place?
If you want love, give it first. If you want happiness, give it first. It goes to money too. If you want it, do charity, yet, all these things are done in the name of divine, without any kind of expectations of return.
So take responsibility now for whatever you desire in life.